Raw Chocolate Workshop

Joanne June 27th, 2009

Hands up those who don’t like chocolate? Hmmm, thought so. Narey a hand raised.

And kids seem to love it just as much as we do. I slip a couple of dessertspoons of cacao powder into our green-smoothie mix once a fortnight or so, just to shake things up a little, and we might have the occasional chocolate fruit-and-nut treat, but it really is something that we only rarely consume. I’m sure my girls would eat it every day, given the chance!

I’m very much in favor of raising our vibrations by really enjoying life, including all that we eat and drink – so, for me, chocolate is definitely OK as an occasional treat. But it has to be good-quality chocolate, without all those dairy and other additives.

Last weekend, I decided to give myself a wee treat and head off to a raw chocolate workshop that had been organized through our Melbourne raw-food meet-up group. I already knew a lot about chocolate from having edited a book a few years ago called Spoil Yourself: A Chocoholic Guide to Melbourne (dream gig, huh?!), but  I wanted to know more about this “raw” version of chocolate, and how it was produced. Oh, and I wanted a few samples…

Boy, oh boy, was it fantastic! I dashed in to the chocolate factory, cheeks tingling from the brisk Melbourne weather, and was greeted by a smiling, happy young man called Christian, who ladled warm “hot” chocolate into a cup for me. Bliss. We sat sipping our hot chocolates, with a hushed air of expectancy. (Christian’s special recipe was given to us – and it includes cardamom and cinnamon – mmm…)

Rugged up to the nines in the chilly factory, we sat listening intently to Scott, the owner of “Loving Earth”, passionately explain the different varieties of beans, the production process, and how Loving Earth works directly with communities in Mexico and Peru to ensure the best quality ingredients (this trade helps those communities enormously). Scott regularly visits the farmers and production facilities – it’s so great to see a company that cares about the source of their ingredients, and about the effects on those source communities, and the environment.

Christian also gave us the low-down on the amazing nutritional benefits of cacao (the theobromine, magnesium, iron, and antioxidant qualities), but tempered this (chocolate insider’s joke – get it?) by saying that cacao is potent and should be used with care. I absolutely agree with this, and deliberately avoid giving myself or my girls too much cacao – I think the caffeine content alone is something that makes it an occasional treat, despite its superfood characteristics.

At the Loving Earth factory in Melbourne, they use organic Criollo (the highest quality cacao) powder and butter, and combine it with agave nectar, Himalayan crystal salt and vanilla bean to create the base of all their chocolate bars. The cacao provides the bitterness, with the agave being the sweetener. They then add flavorings such as lucuma (which helps “lighten it up” a little), mesquite, purple corn, camu camu, maca, goji berries, and nuts, to create gorgeous chocolate bars. Is your mouth watering yet?

We all had the chance to whisk together a base chocolate mix, with Scott encouraging us to “stir in the love”. Nothing is heated above 113ºF (45ºC), so the chocolate really is raw (no roasting of beans) – this is definitely not the case with traditional chocolate production, where the mix is often heated over 176ºF (80ºC).

We then gathered in groups and added sprinkles of this and that to the mix, in little tin pots (see pic of my partners-in-crime Donna and Jess, about to launch into choc production). We then added larger, chunky pieces (berries, nuts etc) to the molds, poured in the choc (see pic with my almond additions) and put them in a fridge, to set.

We then tipped out the bars and wrapped them ourselves. Upon taking mine home, my husband Darren had a nibble of a bar, and declared it “not too bad at all!” (this, from a non-raw-foodie!). I personally prefer the bars that have had a little lucuma added – I’m not entirely a dark-choc aficionado, but I’m learning to appreciate it.

But it’s not just the chocolate bars that are sublime – I also adore the Loving Earth coconut-chocolate butter, which I occasionally spread into pitted Medjool date halves and give to my girls as part of their after-school snack. Honestly, I could eat that stuff by the spoonful!

If you’d like to learn more about raw chocolate, see Loving Earth’s website. They also run chocolate parties at homes (if you live in Melbourne or Sydney). They’re a hoot!

Till next week, with cacao kisses,

Jo

PS Have you signed up for the free Raw Mom Summit yet? Huge, chocolately hugs to Shannon and Tera for putting this together – I’m loving these calls! I’m making my way through them by downloading calls to my MP3 player and taking them in on my walks (you can only download the calls on the upgrade version – if that type of multi-tasking appeals to you, make sure you upgrade!)

Feedback on the Raw Mom Summit

Tera June 24th, 2009

I couldn’t resist taking this opportunity to share some of the feedback on the Raw Mom Summit. It’s always somewhat of a risk when we create a program like this. We believe in it, hope it will have a positive impact on the world and work our little buns off making it all happen.

We watch the signups with anticipation, we cross our fingers hoping for a few sales, but the real payment comes when we get emails like this:

“LOVING the Raw Mom Summit. Excellent work. Thank you for putting this together.”
“I just finished listening to tonight’s recordings and was blown away! I signed up for your affiliate program and am telling everybody I know about this…you did an AWESOME job and are a true inspiration. Congratulations!!

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Hi Raw Mommas!

Just dropping you a note sending sooooooo much LOVE to everyone that has put this together. The information is so valuable and accessible to anyone. My age is 18 years old and am far from being a momma ; ) am just sooooo inspired and overcome with gratitude for the downloads coming thru this event ; ) Great stuff for the further unifying and awakening of our planet.

Bless!
Melina


You guys are rocking my universe!
Insane. Love it, love you…

Michelle S

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“So inspired by today’s speakers;  particularly Walter Shantree Kascera.  My husband and I are new to this scene and learned much from the wisdom of this man.  We don’t have small children so some of the talks didn’t quite suit the life we live but we still found them interesting.  This symposium is a great accomplishment.”

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“Just a quick note to tell you that I am really feeling some kind of collective blessing after listening to these (just finished Gina Laverde, she’s amazing!)  – and it’s totally a feeling of empowerment, which is FUN because I consider myself already quite empowered, so I am loving this unexpected feeling of an even MORE deepened being.  Wow!  So so so happy you all decided to make this happen.  MUCH love to you and all who participated.

Junglegirl

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From one of our VIP participants who ordered the upgraded version:

“I couldn’t help myself. I jumped ahead and listened to David Wolfe’s interview. WOW. Shannon did such a beautiful job. He seems to get a lot of negative hype from certain individuals, but that interview gave me 100% complete respect for him. Thank you for these life changing calls.

Kimberly C.”

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“I’ve just listened to the first interviews from the raw mom summit. I’ve been in tears almost the whole time – every conversation you had touched my heart in such a sacred way. Such beautiful interactions.”

Thank you. I appreciate the gift.

I don’t have any money (its ok, I don’t have any children yet either) so it is such a blessing to receive this gift freely.

I’ve been moved by all of the interviews  – Victoria’s clarity, Andrea’s honesty, the ‘teaser call’ with Tera and Steve…

…but the flame of one of my true passions is flamed by the call with Shantree. This is the information that I have been wanting for quite some time. I knew there must be examples somewhere in Canada of the way of living with the land that I feel in the core of my being to be so right. You have brought that information to me.

I’ve felt isolated in rural Manitoba – seeing the forests bulldozed and buried or slashed & burned clearcut to make way for manufactured seed crops. I suffer physically and weep with emotion when the land is sprayed with herbicides, fungicides and pesticides. The corporate machine of farming without integrity will not last – I know that my 6 acres of permaculture is a small start. This is where I want to birth and raise my children. This is where I want to guide others to live in harmony with the blessings of the natural world.

Looking forward to more and more opening of my heart and magical discovery as the summit progresses. I love you, Shannon.

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Since I’m responsible for the marketing and sales around here, you can imagine how this one touched my heart. We take a risk putting passion before profit, but the emotional relationships we develop with other members of this community, the testimonials and lives we touch and the satisfaction of doing something that makes the world a better place is our greatest reward.

I looooove, love, loooove this feedback! It inspires and empowers me more than ever!

Dear Friends,

WOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

OK, I have to purchase this series.  It is so content rich

For instance, I am thrilled: no time pressure to buy this right away. No hype in the presentation (I do not like the word sales letter.)

Common sense statements and not trying to get us all in an emotional frenzy to buy this series.

Not playing on fear of sickness to attract people.

I have heard the current internet marketing teachings and I see that you are breaking new ground, and I applaud that.  I think that is the direction that things are going, as we create the world we really want.

I love it that these calls are not thinly disguised infomercials.  Which makes me  MORE interested in what else the speakers have to offer us.

It is a breath of fresh air.

I am treated as though I possess a working brain and common sense.  I am treated with respect.

I  notice and appreciate that.

That is what I would expect from raw people.  We bring lucidity and a gut level experience of abundance and balance to all we do.  We are not perfect, but we sense this underlying order of the universe and align with itas best we can.

This is wonderful.

I would really like to promote this series to my list, and on my soon-to-be website or blog.  Do you have a way that people can be affiliates with you and promote your series?   I hope so.  I would be honored and proud to do so, and feel like I was helping our planet to evolve.

Best wishes to you for all success.

Happiness, Peace, Health and Abundance for All!

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What a boost! What a marvelous way to start my day! I thought I’d share these with you. If you have comments, thoughts, feedback, please let us know! If you’re not yet registered, sign up, Sunshine!

Raw Mom, Cooked Dad

Tera June 22nd, 2009

As I write this, we are just an hour away from the official kick off of our Raw Mom Summit and whooooooa, what a ride! Amazing to have over 5000 people sign up in about a week and a half. We’re thrilled with the support and enthusiasm that we’ve received and know that this is juuuuust the start of what is to come. It’s not too late to tell people about it. Better catch some of the action, than none at all!!

If you’re here and you’re ready for the ride, then get your seat belt on, Darlin’, cuz it’s only going to get better from here. Shannon and I have been giggling and soaking up our Sisterhood all day today by planning the next big adventure. For now, we’ll have to keep some of it hush, hush, but what we can tell you about, is our upcoming book, Raw Mom, Cooked Dad! I’m bursting with enthusiasm about this book and so looking forward to sharing it with you.

I was finally catching up on the Diva blog this afternoon and wrote some of my thoughts about this book andhow I feel about it. While the book is designed to offer a lot of support to people who are trying to make it work on the raw food diet in a cooked food family, it addresses everything from attitude and emotional environments to how to make knock-out lasagna better than Mama Mia’s family favorite!

So, taken from the diva blog, here are a few of my thoughts on the subject:

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This is a book I’ve been working on with Shannon Leone. It’s nearing completion and not a moment too soon. I’ve been so challenged and fascinated with my new relationship with Mr. Right these days, that the timing could not have been more perfect for me to be writing this book. If a cooked dad could be cooked, this guy’s barbqued, Baby! Meaty lasagna, wheaty bread and blue cheese. It’s almost surreal to watch myself in relationship to this person. I mean, I would have expected, insisted, suspected… something! that I fall in love with someone who eats the way I do and who understands and values the same nutritional principles I do. But we’re virtually speaking foreign tongues when it comes to food and it CHALLENGES ME SOOOOOO MUCH.

I love it.

I’ve only ever wanted to do the things that make the world a better place. I’ve only ever wanted to find a way to get this message out to the world in a way that is approachable, accessible and friendly. I laughed so hard the other day when he explained that he was proud of himself for accepting me as I am–weird and highly unusual. I laughed because I thought I was the one being tolerant and accepting!!!

It’s like relearning I’m being forced to relearn this whole lifestyle all over again. I watch my food-obsessed circuits play themselves while he sits smiling and wolfing down meaty lasagna telling me about the time he was soooo sick with a hangover and this meaty lasagna made him feel so much better, this food is practically therapeutic for him! I heard him justify the therapeutic value of “protein” and “calcium” and all the other hearty nutrients in food that I would consider unsuitable for human consumption.

I sit with a half-dazed look on my eyes while thoughts spit themselves out on the sidewalk of my mind:

“Doesn’t he KNOW the amount of carcingens in that thing?”

“Doesn’t he KNOW what that DOES to a person, to eat that way?”

“What about the animals!?!”

“What about the hydrogenated fats and opiate receptors in the brain?”

Doesn’t he GET IT that this food is killing him??!!!

At it is at precisely that moment that I am forced to take a few steps back from my own head and examine the carcinogenic nature of my thought processes.

Oprah touches the lives of millions of people every day. Does anyone reeeeally care that she eats chicken fingers at night? If I had a dollar for all the hours I’ve protested against the consumption of animals, I’d buy myself a book on nonviolent communication. The annihilation of chicken fingers won’t make the world a better place before honesty, truth and integrity does.

I don’t know how to teach people to care for the planet, to love and respect animal life until we empower and lift them up enough to value and respect their own life. I think, sometimes, we’ve got it backwards around here. We’re shouting out in the name of environmental awareness and frowning at fast food, but what if…

What if we all spent a bit more time validating the good we see in the world instead of complaining about what’s wrong with it?

What if we all spent a bit more time telling the truth (with love and respect) about how we feel and what we think, even if we’re afraid it might hurt to do so?

What if we kept less secrets and talked behind backs less so we could sit and exchange eye contact with mutual respect and admiration?

Without divulging too much of my own personal relationship goofups, I admit that I’ve tempted to date destiny in the form of a few raw food gurus a time or two with little success. To find myself crazy in love with the prosciutto-eating King of Sandwiches (as he likes to call myself), well, you can imagine my cerebral circuitry has been doing quite a marvelous dance of discovery these days.

I’m challenged to see the world in a different way.

I’m challenged to accept the idea that there’s more to life than what meets the eye. I always knew it, believed it to be true and now am being forced to PROVE IT!

So, until someone would like to measure the carcinogens in anger, hostility, hatred, ignorance, dishonesty and disgust, then I’m not convinced “raw food” is the answer to all our ills. Until someone can convince me that my thoughts are not responsible for the way I perceive my life and how I live it, then I’m putting more attention on love and affection than meaty lasagna.

As you can see, I’m pretty passionate and super excited about this book coming out and will be talking a lot more about it. Stay tuned, Snuggle puff! And let me know what YOU think about Raw Mom, Cooked Dad and surviving on raw food in a cooked food world. Now’s your chance, as I’m finishing up this manuscript, to get us to address some of the questions, concerns and thoughts you might have on this subject.

Awaiting your display of love and affection in the form of 1s and 0s in the comment box below, my deeear!

Hugs,

Tera

Flowers for You!

Joanne June 17th, 2009

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Hello! It’s Jo here. I do apologize for my lack of blogging action over the past few weeks – let’s just say, it’s been a very, very busy time here at Raw Mom HQ, as (along with bringing you the amazing Raw Mom Summit) we shepherd our latest baby through the design stage. Which baby, I hear you ask? Why, my beautiful raw food recipe e-book for kids!

I can’t wait to unveil it for you – but I must be patient, and know that its birth is imminent. I am one proud mama!

But I wanted to send a little love your way, and what better than with a dose of beauty in the form of a picture of gorgeous roses? The roses are placed lovingly in the laundry sink (whispered aside: I wish my laundry sink looked like this!) of Vicki Archer, an expat Australian who restored, to perfection, an old farmhouse in Provence.

If you’re a Francophile who’d like to indulge in a little escapism, head to Vicki’s “French Essence” blog at http://www.frenchessence.blogspot.com/ – or lose yourself in her luscious, padded-cover coffee-table book, My French Life. This sumptuous book reveals the journey of the farmhouse’s restoration, provides a taste of provincial French life and its people, and is filled with the beautiful photography of the talented Carla Coulson.

Until next week, sending you scented-blossom hugs and wishes for carefree summer days…

Love Jo

Photo reproduced with kind permission of Vicki Archer.

The Evolution of Motherhood Has Arrived

Tera June 11th, 2009

After months of research, writing, planning, preparing and hustling her buns to get it all ready in time for the end of the school year, Shannon Leone has released her greatest work yet:

The Raw Mom Summit!

I admit I had a little something to do with it. ;-) But I do mean, “a little”. I simply whispered the idea of a “Raw Mom Summit” in Shannon’s ear and she strapped on wings and flew, flew, flew until this week when we released the Raw Mom Summit.

It’s brilliant and beautiful.

It’s a coming together of some of the world’s most inspiring health advocates for a series of conversations that will leave you tranformed. It IS the Evolution of Motherhood and we’d like your help in getting it out to the world.

The Summit will begin on June 22nd until June 30th and for one time only, it will be made available for FREE!

Sign up to join us and spread the word to your friends, families and loved ones. Stay tuned this week I will be doing some sneak-preview interviews leading up to the Raw Mom Summit. This week Jay and Linda Kordich will be joining me with their combined 90 years of experience to talk about their experience as a family with juicing and living on raw food! Check out the diva blog to learn more and get access to this interview!

Hope to speak to you soon!

Love and hugs,

Tera

Icing On The Cake

Jamie Abrams May 28th, 2009

Birthdays always conjure up in my head the idea of colourful balloons, pin the tale on donkey games, sugary double-layered cake, dairy ice cream, a bountiful stack of lusciously wrapped presents and children running on a manicured lawn. Funnily, I don’t ever remember having such a birthday or attending a party that matched my fairytale expectations of this birthday celebration.

P1010026I have to say that since becoming a mama my un-lived pie-in-the-sky birthdays have been trying to peep their head into how I think I should ritualize Zenchai’s birthday. It is easy to fall prey to the pressures of having a big do, especially as our culture feasts on the opportunity to let loose, spend a little dosh (money) and revel in consumerism. Even if we don’t give in to the push of the pipe dream party we can get sucked in by guilt ~ that we should be doing things certain ways because it is what is expected or that is what Suzy Jones next door is doing etc.

P1010036But I have to proudly say that so far I have squashed any rising guilt in me about how we jubilate Zenchai’s birthday. Just last week we beat the drum for his 3rd birthday. It was a huge milestone for him. This year he really comprehended what all the whooping and cheering was about. He’ll even boastfully tell you he was born in the toilet! (Click here to read our ecstatic birthing tango.)

P1010008We began our glorious day with Zenchai waking both Claude and I up. Zenchai loves a good morning wrestling cuddle. After jumping on us both, sitting on our heads and loving us like no other child could, we headed downstairs to really get things in full swing. He opened one present from his little girlfriend and one from us. Already he was basking in all the glowing attention.

Zenchai being a real car man, we were in a conundrum whether to take him to his cherished Mercedes Benz World or an outdoor farm play adventure area. The sunny weather made the decision for us. We set off for a day of playing in tree houses, sand and climbing frames. We had many shrieks of delight, giggles and frolics.

P1010044After our day out we surrendered to our home for an evening of family, food and festivity. We had a simple meal (cooked, but one of Zenchai’s favourites) with his grandmere, grandpere, little girlfriend and our friend. It was delicious food and company. The real icing on the cake was THE CAKE. I made a succulent RAW strawberry cream cake. His cake turned out even more splendid than I could have ever imagined. Not only did it look the part, it tasted it, too!!  Topped with vintage cars just for our car enthusiast and it was the perfect cake.

If you are interested in creating a cake like this one, I based it off a recipe in the Café Gratitude book. Basically the cream is made from coconut cream and cashews with the cake dough formed from dates and dehydrated almond pulp. DIVINE!

To complete Zenchai’s day, I read him The Birthday Story ~ a sweet reminder of where we come from. (Click here to read Shannon’s birthday celebration ideas including The Birthday Story.)

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THE DREAM WE CARRY

Shannon May 22nd, 2009

LoveWhy is the Beauty within and all around us become so difficult to see…? Can we just re-member how fun it was to stick our tongues out in the rain, to jump in puddles, to see a rainbow, or catch a grasshopper…? Mother Earth has something to say about living in Paradise…If I were Queen of the Universe, I would wave my wand and instantly unburden us of our fears and doubts, and inspire by being inspired/ In Spirit; and in the mystical web of Life we would ALL know that we are ALL Royalty… Each precious babe would be born into her honoured Birthright of Divine Protection, Sovereignty, and pure Bliss; We would all be consciously conceived, then received into a sacred Welcoming Ceremony that is supportive of the Mother’s and Baby’s needs and intentions

newborn260x148…And little Children would be OUR great Teachers, healing us with their un-conditional love and laughter which recalls our true Ecstatic Essence, and we would live more in their world, than strive to have them live in ours…If what I desired could be manifested, and it can, and it IS, the shame-full word ’should’ would overnight vanish and the hope-full word ‘could’ would be spoken instead, opening up potential and possibility…There wouldn’t need to be a sad, defeated word like ‘can’t’ because we would all understand that if our children say that it simply means ‘I’m not ready’ or ‘I don’t know how’ or ‘I don’t want to’, and when they say ‘I want’ it means ‘I NEED’…Our orientation to each other would be softer, with heart-felt empathy, compassion and kindness as we would Universally ‘real-eyes’ that we are literally ‘all ONE’, planetary Sisters and Brothers with each other and with all plant and animal fellow Earthlings…It would be impossible to judge one another for we would know what we think of anyone is what we will think of our self…We would ALLOW OTHERS and HONOUR OURSELVES and live from happy hearts and relaxed minds and passionate vision…Fresh, clean air and pure, sparkling water and scrumptious, living food would be our path…Beauty by Nature- the shimmer of a Dragonflies wings, the rapture of a sunset, the power of a thunderstorm, the whisper of a breeze…would be cherished as our way of life…We would all joyfully share our Bounty with one another for there would be no borders, and our magical fruit trees and glorious gardens would be Harvested and shared in communal CELEBRATION.

…Meditation would be the first step in any conflict where mediation was needed be it internally or externally, which of course would automatically shift our perspective so that what first seemed a problem was actually just a mis-take or illusion; In its place would now be an opportunity, a call to love even deeper…Our Purpose would be our HEART’S DESIRE, whatever that is for each one of us, and the fulfillment of that calling would create TRUE HAPPINESS for everyone, for that is how magical Life is when we live in alignment and follow our Bliss…Hunger and pollution and greed and poverty would not exist because this world is a Well-Spring of ABUNDANCE and PROSPERITY~ Beauty, Truth and Goodness overflow here, and everything we need we can have if we BE-LIVE it…I play and tell my children that Life is like Playdough~ We make of it what we WILL…All the forces of Goodwill, all the Angels stand at our attention just waiting be asked to assist us…If I were Queen of the Universe, LOVE would be our COMPASS and worry, stress, dis-ease and fear would fade away as the golden Sun melts the silent frost under which Spring flowers bloom and smile up at us their radiance…I AM a Queen of my Uni-Verse, our ONE SONG, which is sung by the rain, the waves, and the shiver of leaves in the wind which carries the scent of apple blossoms and lavender sprigs over the fields and plains and majestic mountains; We all are Queens and Kings, Goddesses and Emperors…Paradise IS everywhere…Delicious and sensuous, alive and free, resonating within every one of us who is unencumbered and inviting, gleeful and grateful…Bask in the full moon, lay on the grass, talk to all creatures and sit with the trees…Its a beauty-full world, with everything we need, Here and Now. This is my Paradise…What is yours..?
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Extreme Self-Care

Joanne May 19th, 2009

Do you look after yourself? I mean really look after yourself? Extremely well?

Do I? Well, aah, no, I don’t. But I am in the process of very, very positive change.

My tendency, for many years, has been to immerse myself thoroughly in my work – work that I love (including the “work” of mothering). I adore working passionately on something that thrills me; in fact, most of the time it doesn’t even feel like work.

But that somewhat narrow focus has often resulted in me neglecting other areas of life; namely, my health.

With health being a cornerstone for almost every other area of life, this ended up being a problem for me. Cue back surgery in November of 2007. Ouch.

What is it they say? That if you don’t listen to messages from Universe/God/the Divine that first come as a tickle, and then a tap, you end up getting a sledgehammer? Yuh, well, that’s what happened to me.

The worst part was, I knew this wasn’t the example I wanted to set for my daughters. Better than that, I also knew I wanted to be an inspiration, not just a good example.

Listen to me, seriously. Looking after yourself is your most important job. Yes, you are a mother, you might be a wife or partner, you might have work outside the home, you might have a million and one other hats that you wear, but it is only by being the “best you” that you can truly give to others.

If you’re a regular reader of Raw Mom, this is something you’ve heard before, but has it really permeated your consciousness? Do you feel that you have to be all things to all people and that you must always put yourself last?

For me, being your “best you” isn’t just so that you can serve others – what about the fact that you’re a human being (or, more accurately, a spiritual being in a human body)? What’s wrong with caring for yourself just… because? Because each and every one of us is a unique embodiment of Source, and deserves to live a rich, wonderful life?

If this is an issue that you’re struggling with, I highly recommend a gorgeous book by Cheryl Richardson, called  The Art of Extreme Self-Care: Transform Your Life One Month at a Time (recently published by that wonderful, enlightened publishing company, Hay House). Cheryl takes you through 12 strategies – one for each month of a year – to help put yourself back on your priority list.

One of the most valuable lessons I’ve learned from this book is about adding a sense of nurturing rhythm to the days of your life – I love that! Other topics, among others, include learning to really love yourself; reducing contact with negative/toxic people; making your home a sanctuary, listening to your body and taking charge of your health (a well-thumbed chapter for me); finding and expressing your passions; and effective, respectful ways of  saying “no” (a biggie for some of us!).

At the end of each chapter, Cheryl lists a few resources – websites, audios, or books – that she’s found helpful.

The idea of looking after ourselves shouldn’t need to be called “extreme”, but, for many of us, it’s a radical concept. Until recently, it’s been that way for me, but I’ve gotta tell ya – it feels SO good when you look after yourself properly.

I like to think that my girls will thank me for this, in years to come…

Love, hugs & wishes for the very best for you.

Till next week!

Jo

Getting Candid With Mama Diva: Veronika Robinson

Jamie Abrams May 18th, 2009

Robinsonfamilymay16th2009GlassonbyI have been familiar with Veronika Robinson’s motherly handiwork for quite some time.  She is a vivacious wife to Paul and mama to Bethany (13) and Eliza (11), based in Cumbria, UK.  However, her integrity and loving commitment to raising children surpasses any of her other worldly achievements. Veronika has even been labelled as an “Extraordinary Breastfeeder” in the UK.  She is author of several books including The Drinks Are On Me : Everything your mother never told you about breastfeeding, which is a superb read. But I think Veronika is most popular for her international-selling magazine The Mother, the ethos of which is one of supporting a holistic attachment parenting style (fertility awareness, conscious conception, peaceful pregnancy, ecstatic birthing, natural immunity and more!). Without further adieux I introduce you to Veronika Robinson ~ Über Mama.

Veronika, briefly how did you come to embrace your Earth-loving lifestyle?

As a toddler, I could be found playing among the plants in our garden. We lived at the edge of a city in the suburbs, and my older siblings would take me to a place called Dead Horse creek (awful name, beautiful place), and we’d spend hours jumping from the trees into the pond. Our garden had a large passion fruit vine and I would literally spend hours sitting there, breaking each fruit open with my teeth, and sucking the seeds out.

At six, my parents moved us to a 700 hundred acre property (on the Darling Downs, Queensland, Australia), and my love affair with Mother Earth became my life. I was always up trees, riding horses high into the  mountains and camping overnight, swimming in creeks, picking fruits and herbs from our huge garden, sucking the end of honeysuckle flowers. My mother’s love of the Earth was pivotal in shaping me. She spent every day outside ~ easy to do in sunny Australia! ~ nurturing our garden. She fed us foods she’d grown, tended any ailments naturally, and never took us to doctors.

Becoming a parent meant drawing upon a lifetime of Earth wisdom passed to me from my mother. I’m always learning, and have so much more I’d like to learn, but on a day to day basis, being able to get outside and just ‘be’ with my plants, soil and the visiting wildlife is sustenance to my soul.

In your book you mention that you eat a plant-based diet, but don’t say whether your two beautiful girls and hunky hub go along the same approach. Can you elaborate on this? How long have you nourished yourself / family in this manner? How easy/difficult have you found it?

Yes, they do. Just before I met my husband, I’d drawn up a long list of what Mr Right would be like, and near the top of the list was ‘vegetarian’. You can imagine how thrilled I was when I discovered he didn’t eat animals. Over the years I’ve alternated between being vegan and having the odd egg or cheese, and although I was vegan for my pregnancy with Bethany, the second the sperm and egg collided at Eliza’s conception, I couldn’t eat enough eggs and cheese.

We’re all vegan. There’s no difficulty in eating this way at home, but when we go travelling it requires a lot of forethought, in either looking for places online before we leave or taking plenty of our own food. We love to make food in this house, and eating out is increasingly becoming a disappointment.

Nutritional supplements tend to be in hot debate in the health field. Which do you and your family use – if any?

No doubt it’s hotly debated because it raises the issue of the awfully unnatural lives we lead, and beggars the question: why don’t you attend to the root, rather than the symptom?

We start our day (breakfast) with a smoothie made from E3 Renew Me. It’s ridiculously expensive, and I always breathe deeply when I buy it, but it’s both a short and long term investment in my family’s health. I’m constantly disappointed by the quality of fruit and veg in this country. We’ve a great organic fruit and vegetable farmers’ market in our local town, but even there I find myself not buying things because I doubt they’ll ripen fully. When you’ve been raised in the sub-tropics and actually know what ripe fruit tastes like, it’s instinctual to decline certain fruits in the UK. I don’t know why, but I’m still shocked that the English can think a rock hard green mango is ripe! No, a ripe mango is yellow/orange, can be smelt from several paces away, and is so lush and juicy that the only place you can eat it is naked in the bathtub. Anything that doesn’t involve such measures is not ripe. Unfortunately, mangoes are my favourite food in the world ~ and a pleasure I rarely have.

Who inspired your plant-based diet?
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I chose to become vegetarian when I was five. One morning I woke up and declared that I was no longer going to eat animals.
Although we had cooked food growing up, my mum squeezed us a fresh orange juice every morning, and we always came home from school to a large plate of salad.

Who do you especially admire in the gastronomic realm?

Sadly, very few, including the raw food world, as some of them really don’t walk the talk. They tell their admiring public one thing, and live lives that are at odds with that information. I do, however, feel that Gabriel Cousins (author of Conscious Eating) is authentic and always enjoy his writings.

What does your family eat on a typical day?

There’s no typical day, and it depends on the day of week. The further away it is from Tuesday (fruit and veg market day) the fewer greens there are, for example, though I plan to have plenty in the garden from June to October. I really dislike buying fruit and veg from a supermarket, even the organic ones ~ laden in plastic.

This morning we started the day with blueberries and strawberries, and had our breakfast smoothie (algae) for morning tea instead. At lunch the family had a plate of various dark leafy greens, grated carrot, yellow pepper, tomato, cucumber, grated broccoli and alfalfa sprouts. I had a juice with greens, ginger, carrot, apple and pear.

I’ve got my eye on a lovely ripe avocado, which I’ll include in tonight’s salad, and we’ll have grilled aubergine to accompany it.

No pun intended, but how do you nurse your spirit and keep motivated? What spiritual disciplines do you practice – if any?

There’s no typical day, and like life, disciplines and practices change.
I start the day with about half an hour’s quiet, contemplative time. This morning I wrote Morning Pages (3 foolscap pages based on the Artist’s Way to unleash one’s creativity), I went for a brisk one hour walk with the family, did 70 minutes of Yin yoga, and had a vegetable juice for lunch to give my digestive tract a bit of space. During the rest of the day, I’ve got to find the time and space to do a full-time job (editing The Mother magazine ~ answering emails is a full-time job in itself!), there are home educated children to nurture, a husband to smile at from time to time, and I’d like to visit a friend up the road. She has two toddlers and I know how very long the day can seem when you’re ‘home alone’ with children. In the evening, I will most definitely read a book to keep me inspired, such as Romancing the Ordinary.

My family and I have fortnightly chiropractic. This is to keep the nervous system open and responsive.

Music is one of the greatest foods for my soul, as well as solitude.

I love to learn more about others and myself through the Enneagram and psychological astrology. It’s made an extraordinary difference to how I see others. Rather than putting people into a box, it allows us to step out of the boxes we create for ourselves: in short, to take responsibility for how we act.
As a child, I practised yoga with my mother, and again when I was pregnant. It’s a recent addition to my life, and I regret not having kept it up after my pregnancy. I was ‘forced’ into yoga because my body increasingly ‘yelled’ at me to do something to compensate for all the computer hours I’m required to do for my job. Day after day I’d come to the computer chair and my body said ‘no’. I’ve ignored this for so long, and ended up in excruciating pain for most of the past seven years.

The beautiful side-effect of yoga is that although the benefits to my back are immeasurable, it’s also brought a deep calmness to me and in the way I see things. Every mother deserves this in her life, especially when her children are young.

How would you best describe your life philosophy?

Live simply, so that others may simply live.

Veronika, you whole-heartedly embody attachment parenting. What are your thoughts on the disconnected parenting that has become so prevalent in our Western society?Tm_34

It breaks my heart. Every time I go to town and hear a baby crying, or see a toddler being slapped or bullied by a parent, I die inside. The vast majority of people have no concept that the way we parent our children is the foundation of the society we live in. If you don’t have the time to love, cherish, nurture and meet the biological needs of your children, then you should leave population growth to someone else. It may sound black and white, but the bottom line is: disconnected parenting is EVERYONE’S problem. We all pay the price for such abuse and neglect.

The trouble is, in such an emotionally backward country like Britain, you can leave your baby in a pram or car seat all day with a dummy in the mouth, and topped up with formula milk and no one says a word. Put the focus on a woman who naturally nurtures her child with full-term breastfeeding, and the whole country cries ‘paedophile!!’ How we begin to put back the pieces to creating whole, happy human beings happens one baby at a time, one mother at a time. It’s like starting to build humanity all over again ~ dismantling prejudices and ignorance.

What are your feelings / thoughts on dummy/pacifier use?

Agggh. Do I really have to answer that? They’re called dummies for a reason. They ‘dummify’ us. It’s not just the baby who has to ‘shut up’ (AND CLOSE DOWN) ~ it’s also the mother.

There’s an amazing circuit of energy that disintegrates between mother and child when we start using artificial substitutes.

Dummies take 750 years to decompose. If a mother isn’t moved by the impact of that on this Earth, she’s pretty unlikely to be connected to her baby either. Cultures which hold the mother and child bond as sacred, also hold the Earth as sacred.

Sometimes even breastfeeding mothers will say that their child needed a dummy because s/he wanted to ‘suck all day’. Yeah, that’s what little babies do! I find that the more connected a mother is to her baby (i.e. emotionally and physically present), the less likely babe will want to suckle all the time (unless the baby is teething, in which case they’ll seek out this natural analgaesic). Babies have their own ways of seeking attachment, and learning to surrender to the art of conscious mothering makes the job a whole lot easier.

How would you best describe the link between breastfeeding and sexuality?Drinks_front

Cor, the last time I attempted to answer something like this I was shot down in flames. People don’t want to hear that breastfeeding is linked to sexuality, because they think it means ‘sex’ and that you want to have sex with your baby/child or partner.

We are sexual beings, from top to toe. There’s no denying it, though most people sabotage, abuse or denigrate it in all sorts of ways. We have a ‘creative energy’ into something with evil, deadly or dangerous dimensions.
Breastfeeding is designed to be pleasurable ~ for mum and baby. That it’s not for so many women is a good indication of how warped we are, culturally, when it comes to body pleasure.

Michel Odent’s book The Functions of Orgasms is vital reading. He thoroughly explains the ‘orgasm’ of breastfeeding ~ the beautiful, biological ability to experience climactic transcendence due to the hormonal surges of breastfeeding. These words, powerful and true as they are, are unlikely to fall on listening ears for many years.

What words of wisdom you would share with moms who are going raw and raising families in the area of breastfeeding and attachment parenting?

Always listen to your own instincts. They’re there, they’re powerful, and they’ll always guide you if you get your ego out of the way, and blank out our culture’s messages.

In terms of how much raw food you bring into your life, remember it’s not a religion and it’s certainly not a competition. Some of the biggest names in the raw food world are not ‘all raw’ behind the scenes, either in their own diet or what they feed their children, so don’t use them as your yard stick.
Always make your decisions on what feels right for you and your family, and never because of what someone else might think.

We’re all human, and there are times when our hunger goes way beyond food and into old, old emotional wounds. These are the times we seek out less than nourishing products and habits. Nurture yourself lovingly through these times. This can be especially true as a parent, because our children bring up all our childhood wounds for healing.

Beware of gurus, especially those within the attachment parenting field, e.g. proponents of Aware Parenting, who espouse controlled crying but within a mother’s arms. This is biologically wrong and very harmful to the baby.

Any recipes or food tips you can share with us?

I love salads, and shy away from raw foods that are sitting in dehydrators for days on end ~ which have me drinking water for Britain ~ or require industrial strength food processors. I love leafy green salads, and like to play with them by adding something unexpected, like strawberries or borage flowers. Often when we have visitors, even if there’s cooked food on offer, they’ll always comment on the salads, probably because most people think of iceberg and cucumber.

We had a potluck last night at a friend’s house, and the salad contained lots of rocket, baby pak choi, red bartlett pear, strawberry, and sunflower seeds.
I love variety and different textures, such as thinly sliced cucumber, lemon juice, fresh spearmint leaves and a sprinkle of sesame seeds or grated carrot, sultanas, sprouted chickpeas, and a dash of pineapple juice.

Lastly, what new projects are in the pipeline that you would like to share with us?

I’m working on a few books at the moment. One is our home educating journey as a family, particularly the aspect of autonomy and freedom in learning. Another book is on natural weaning (child-led weaning and biological expectations) and the third is on the spirituality of breastfeeding. There are some other books I’m plodding along on, such as holistic menstruation, natural remedies and living with the continuum-concept in the modern world. Now, where was that 48 hour day?

Veronika, thank you so much for taking time out of your busy schedule to get candid on topics that are so important to us as mothers.

For more information or to keep up with this hardworking Mama’s luscious  work visit: www.veronikarobinson.com or www.themothermagazine.co.uk

A REAL TREAT FOR US BUSY MOMS!

admin May 13th, 2009

Deserts by Ani PhyoI received a copy of Ani Pyo’s new recipe book for Mother’s Day and I am so excited about it because of how amazingly mom and kid-friendly it is! The recipes are undeniably delicious, but even more importantly is how easy and fast they are so we are more likely to actually find time to use this book.

I am in the middle of preparing everything for our exciting RAW MOM SUMMIT
(see below our special MOTHER’S DAY ANNOUNCEMENT video for a SNEAK PEAK)
and yet I just made one of Ani’s recipes and in a JIFFY!

Deserts by Ani PhyoLandon and Liam arrived home and had a slice for their after-school snack and were so happy at the look and texture and flavour of it (they don’t always like nut-based raw desserts, especially chocolate ones) yet they LOVED this.

Ani is currently doing an online book tour and you can listen to our 10 minute interview:


Here is the recipe:

RASBERRY GANACHE FUDGE CAKE~


CAKE
3 c walnuts
2/3 C cacao or carob powder
1/4 t salt
1 C pitted Medjool dates
Process the nuts into a fine ground, add everything and mix well but do not over-process. Form into two round cakes

FROSTING
1/3 C Medjool dates
1/4 c agave
1/2 ripe avocado
1/3 cacao powder
(I also used 1 T coconut oil)
Process until creamy

FILLING
berries

Its that easy!

To order your own copy of this sweet little treasure, go to www.aniphyo.com

xo Raw Mom Shannon

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